hey Sally girl))) glad you had fun at vA beach, you weren't too far from me.
You sound very good and i'm glad for that, and i too agree he wants you to do the dirty work, he must've lost his spine somewhere. A word of caution about mediators, i had to call at least 7, some charge too much, another told me she din't guarantee the judge would accept her SA, another told me they 'd needed at least 7 sessions, etc etc. I didn't trust stbx, he just wanted to go with the first guy on the county. So, if and when the time comes shop around, dont' tell him you are, but do ask questions, like how long the tipical mediation lasts, how many meetings and how many hrs, how much for the writing of the actual sA and stuff.
Anyways, i'll let you rinse the sand off your butt now, lol
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.