Think there may be a little of Cats Cradle going on w/ ex and S.

Ever since they had the talk and S found out that his dad isnt as serious about OW as we first thought I think OW has detached a little, she caught on to ex faster then me!

Sooo ex has taken much more interest in S lately. Calling a lot more- asking him to join him, even on weekends! which for almost 6 yrs was off limits! that was for OW and his party gang.

S gets a little annoyed as its last min. things , and S will have made plans already and then ex gives him a hard time. Ex asked S friday will he get a chance to see him on this visit home?? S said well, I didnt think I was coming home, but something came up and I have plans now.
S also dosnt understand why ex cant come over to our part of town, after all S said, he is the one that walked away from the family I didnt ask him to move an hour away.

I had to laugh tho, ex asked S to join him to see a friend of his, B,-- B and ex were roomates when we started dating almost 30 yrs ago, B was in a band then, trying to hit the big time....B is still; at 54 in a band, trying to make the big time.

Hey nothing wrong w/ dreaming its just 30 yrs ago , one of our first dates is ex asked ME to go see B play at a club and hes now asking S to join him and see B and his band. Ha! this is the same friend who not long after ex left, B left his wife, affair and all.

Birds of a feather eh?

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