L2,
Be careful here, you could be creating a self-fulfilling prophesy! You do not know the future, but you can influence it. If you are acting AS IF...your M is doomed and H will be leaving in 6 weeks, you will create a climate that could make this more likely to occur. If this is your goal (which I don't think it is), then that is OK.

On the other hand, if you act AS IF...your life will be fine no matter what H does, then he will be seeing a picture in his mind that is totally different. A calm, loving L2 who is patient with her (and his) S's, who is unaffected by all of his MLC cr@p, etc.

Just my .02$ from a long ways away. Hope you can find your peace either way!

Take care, SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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