Joie I have given it some thought but H and I are a LONG way from piecing still. I believe I know what I need to change and have already started working on it. NOt so sure H know's what I expect from him. So far it's still all about him and what he wants. I know I want and need more help with our son, more family time and more time with just H. He has always been selfish with his time and he is going to have to change in order for this is work