So tell you what, H.....How about you keep the $3K and the boys and I will take the $7K?
Hmmm...I wouldn't have been able to keep that comment to myself.
I know R talks are draining for both of you, but I think you got some things off of your chest. You deserve to have your needs met too, and he needs to know what those needs are. Yeah, I am sure he works hard...but I am also sure that taking care 3 boys is no small feat!
Maybe your talk will get him to thinking about things...and he knows that the date in June is quickly approaching.
