Just saw H at the store, he's ill today. We had just dropped off some food that's good for upset tummy for him, he wasn't at the apartment and I just thought he stayed at work, but the place did smell a little of throw-up. Anyway, he called me back as we were leaving saying he was at Trader Joe's getting soup and 7-up. Told him that we just dropped off a bag of groceries for him and we were at Target, which was right by TJ's. He came over to see the kids for a minute and pick up some Gatorade. He looked horrible and the poor guy rode his motorcycle today, so he was in his riding boots, riding jacket, gloves and helmet. It's like 90 here and he has the chills. Not a good combo.

He told me how nice it was for me to drop the stuff by, which feels good because it WAS nice and he better realize that he's thinking of dumping a nice person. Then when we parted, he said, "I love you." and I got to say ILY2. \:\) He said it, out of the blue, on his own. \:\)


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.