Karma - she's not very nice, is she? ExH with the South African prostitute, now fat and pregnant and roping him back into poopy diapers and the like at 53? Sounds like a special kind of hell to me. (I love my kids, and look forward to grandkids, but at 51 I try to picture myself going through all that stuff again - especially with a spouse who was going through it for the first time and really thought it mattered what kind of stroller you bought .......... YUCK! I'd be so depressed!!!!!!)