Is there someone else. My guess is yes. Do I have hard proof? No, but all the signs say yes. Otherwise, why now after so long holding on to it? Add this to W on and off moods, wait and see, then full stem ahead. I also happen to stumble on a V-day card which was kind of romantic, but wasn't sent to me. It disappeared before V-day.
There are many other details that I don't have time to expound on. Needless to say some day she will have to account for her actions, I wouldn't want to be there for that day.
So what do you get your W for your anniversary after she "pulled the plug" on your M? Won't find that section at the Halmark store. Right now I am just working hard to have a "C" like attitude about the whole thing. In a way I have been a little surprised how church leadership has been taking such a stand off approach to this thing, but I guess if she's not in tune, what they say won't make much difference. I guess that's why I'm not in there position, I would say something.
How did RS lesson go? I was kind of glad to hear what your approach/state of mind has been towards your M. Hopefully that will eventually get you where your both need to be. Have a good week. If you have any great ideas, I'm all ears.