RTL,
First of all you are doing a superhuman job of deflecting you W"s anger and attacks. I think I see tiny little positive changes as well, and each positive interaction builds on the next. As far as the migraine goes , it was either from stress or too much wine. But the important thing is that when she needed help with D she turned to you, the father. This bodes very well for the future. Underneath all her accusations against you, when it comes down to it, she goes to you . I think this means deep down she really does not want you out of D's life and does trust you to be a good parent. Sometimes actions speak much louder than words , or lawyers. Have fun with D tonight.