To agree to a D or not..... that is the question

[cagzmom]

Right now in my own eyes I am a failure. Why would I want to broadcast that to the world?

If you see you as a failure - then you would have to see me as one, Trusting as one, Jeanette as one... do you see it?

I too feel like a failure..I couldn't fix it, couldn't get him to lvoe me, want me, want to change himself....the feeling is overwhelming at times.....but then I think of my friends on here - those who have NOT FAILED...and if I am doing what htey have done..
1)taking care of me
2)focusing on fixing what were my issues
3)letting someone go who needs to run
THEN i must not be a failure.....DIVORCE (i hate htat word) is suppose to not be about us failing, but about the ending of something that has died...we DID NOT KILL it...the life was snuffed out by another.