OK, I've planned the day, it's next Sunday so I had to get working on it.
The idea is stress relief. He's been saying that he'll go to a yoga class with me, so I'm planning on starting the day with yoga, then I have a massage lined up for him, then I thought we'd go to the driving range and putt-putt golf with the kids (or something else if I get a good brainstorm between now and then), then come back here for an early dinner and to top it off, I've invited a few of his friends over for surprise cake and cocktails. Very specifically invited HIS friends, not OUR friends, but rather the friends he's made since we moved to our new house.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09