Sounds nice. This is the ticket, as you know what nice begets.... I think if you take the time to think about what he would like, and you make the day special for him, he will notice. And he will feel good about it. I hope he will reciprocate for Mother's Day. Why is it that we forget to make the other person feel special when we are married? Keep going. You are doing great. You never know what is going on in another person's mind. Don't jump to conclusions, especially depressing ones.