Sorry to hear that you've hit a bump in the road! Try not to ASSume anything -- not easy, I KNOW! I've been there.
Try to remember that it's perfectly normal for h to withdraw (grey and murky?) from time to time...even under the most perfect of sitch's! And what's up with the cell bill? Are you certain that there's "something" there?
Keep DB'ing hon -- act "as if" until h. wonders who the heck this gorgeous, dynamic, energized, happy, loving woman is beside him -- oh, wait, that's my w! he says.
All so easy for me to say, harder to do. Good luck getting support for your parents and your 4 legged babies.
I hope you have a great overnighter!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.