SAFFIE, I DONT THINK HE HAS MUCH CONTACT WITH THE COW. HE JUST CANT/WONT SEVER THAT LAST TIE.

WHAT DO I WANT??? i WANT HER OUT OF OUR LIVES OUT OF THAT APT. I WANT MY M BACK INTACT COMPLETE W/ INTAMCY. MAYBE I EXPECT TOO MUCH....

MAYBE HE JUST NOT CAPABLE RIGHT NOW. HE IS A GREAT ONE TO COMPARTMENTALIZE. PUTS IT IN A SPOT THEN DOESNT HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT.

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest