HIC~ Thanks for the help/advice. I'm just kind of at a loss/lull right now. Today is 4 weeks no contact. I have heard from several people that our friends who are now D'd, the guy is living with my H. so I'm sure it is quite the bachelor pad. So, I have a feeling, it's going to be a while before I hear anything out of him. Two guys, seperated, living the single life, riding motorcycles, girl I need to stop, or I'm going to puke, or go crazy thinking of what else is going on at what used to be my home. Sorry needed to vent....
I pray sooooo hard that God is guiding my H and sending the Holy Spirit to show him the way. I think for now that is all I can do, pray for him. I know when it's time, God will bring us together, in His perfect time. He knows when we will both be ready. Have you checked out the sight rejoiceministries.org? They send out a daily devotional which is nice, it helps to keep me focused. It's Christian based, and it just helps me to remember what I am fighting for and why. I am a Catholic, so some of the things are new to me, but overall it's some good stuff!
Thanks for your help, support, and listening ears HIC, you get what I'm going thru. hugs to you Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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