There is nothing available to let of OT, I didnt' want to give him a 3rd morning with the kids nor give him one of the kids to claim, but I did, and yet he accused me during a hissy fit that I've "fought him every inch of the way".
He has way too much crap (honestly, nothing he is storing there is of any value, mostly props from his various plays he did for s9's bdays, workout stuff and various junk he won't toss). Either at ow's or at his friends, wherever he is staying he's prob junked the place already, he's very messy and unorganized, so he has no space whatsoever (no, not excusing him, just explaining why he is fighting so much to keep his stuff in the shed). There are still 2 rooms in our home he's junked up and stuff he needs to get out of there. Not my problem any more, I know, my family would prob put the whole thing on the curb on trash day if I tell them how much grief he's giving me because of it, they are hot heads like m, they'd be so po'd.
My family was wonderful again, like a one man army they came to my home yesterday: dad cut the overgrown bushes stbx refused to trim, sister cleaned my porch stbx filled with junk, brother and bil fixed my 2 bathroom sinks one of which stbx broke, sil painted the mural wall. And the two babies filled me with so much joy with their toothless laugh, it was wonderful to have them.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
