Point taken! What I want to get across to BT is that he can't make her or anyone else happy, especially a W who is so committed to being unhappy.
Great point. I think that's something I'm still trying to realize with my W. That I could have done a lot of things differently and better, but in the end it's her choice to be happy. Sometimes there's nothing you can do to convince a WAW that you didn't cause all her pain. Some, but not all.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK