Bring on the Rain

[SueS]

Hi tal-

Thanks for coming by. I need to get to your thread and check up on you too.

So, here's the latest...........
H has asked me twice now if I am going to go to Chicago with him next weekend. Both times I told him I didn't know. He just called me and was a complete a$$.

Him- So, are you trying to get back at me by not going to Chicago with me?
Me - No. That's not it at all.
Him- Well, if I can't find a cheap flight, then I'm driving and taking D4. She wants to see my dad & her cousin. I'll call SIL and see if she can watch her on Friday night and Saturday.
Me- Well then I guess I have to go because I'm not being without my daughter on Mother's Day.
Him- Oh,...... well then what if I told you that you can't go with me and I don't want you to go.
Me- You'd actually be that cruel as to make me be without my daughter on Mother's Day.
Him- (kind of chuckled)....Yeah, maybe.
Me- Well then I guess I'm going because I will not be without her on Mother's Day.
Him- Okay, I'll check for flights and if I can't find one I'll let you know tonight when I get home.

What the hell is he doing to me? He's clear that he no longer loves me and doesn't want me in his life but yet he'll talk to me like that and basically force me to go or be without D4 on Mother's Day?

I'm scared that this is what it's going to be like. He'll do what he wants and then still badger me and use D4. I know if I tell him no and that I don't want him to take her that he'll use it against me by saying that I won't let her see his family.

I want out and away from this pain.

SueS