I think you are right. But right now we are all miserable.
I have made major changes in me. Her biggest issue was that i didn't pay enough attention to her and probabily to much to the kids. I offered myself to her but was rejected. I no longer drink at all. Not that I ever had a problem. I didn't drink a lot just often. I would have two drinks and fall asleep. I am much more available to anyone who needs me. She always complained about my weight. I now weight less than I did my last year of High School (to skinny). I am dressing better. I probabily use to work to hard and played to much golf. I do less of both. There are other smaller things that I have also corrected. I am no angel and I am certainly at fault for at least 50% of this and I am sorry if I gave anyone any different impression.
