PJ - you are getting great advice from Christarn - I can't add much except for repeating - do what is right for you and your children. Be the better man, GAL - read DR and practice. I have a DB coach as well and am looking forward to our calls. The top 10 list is essetial as well - I too have this printed out and read it all the time.
Thinking of you.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
