Point taken! What I want to get across to BT is that he can't make her or anyone else happy, especially a W who is so committed to being unhappy. Happiness has to come from within her and from the choices she makes, not what BT does. I always thought that maybe when my W was rid of me she'd be a happier person but, guess what, she's still as unhappy as ever. Unhappy people will always find something else to be unhappy about. It's not up to BT to make his W's choice to separate into her "happy place", that's her job.
