I think you are doing great Steelers.

he's clearly not out of the "fog" yet.

You guys were never really piecing (FW and I never really pieced the first time he came home either).

They get treated differently in piecing than they do in the thick of MLC and the fog.

I think there is something good to be said for him moving out again. It makes things easier while they are still going through it.

Continue to treat him with detached kindness. Fw always wanted me to get mad at him and blow up and when I never did it blew his mind.

he wanted an excuse for his behavior and I refused to give him one.

Your H has no excuse either and it's eating him alive.

Prayers are with you.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections