That's interesting, Tal. I told my doctor (our doctor ) the entire situation too. (each bomb as they occurred, actually ).
He never ONCE tried to sway me in either direction. He listened, offered me the Rx's (which had been a long time coming, even before bomb#1)...said that the situation was "sh!tty!", comforted me, and supported both CJ and I on this journey. Personally, I think my MD's was the more professional response...let the patient decide!
Perhaps the fact that he is still married to W#1 after 20 years had something to do with it...who knows what he's been through?
If you're having any weird side effects from the meds, let me know...I had some, but they faded within days or weeks.