How do they walk away?

[Jeanette1120]

I'm so glad your not giving up on finding a good counselor to talk to!! It's very important for you to get your emotions out! This will help with the nightmares!

You go to the tanning salon? For vitamin D?? Doesn't it make you feel wonderful!?!?! I do the same thing! It boosts your energy helps your appearance thus making YOU feel better. Don't tell my Mother tho...she hates those things! Said something about wrinkles.....guess she's not heard of botox

Ah Ha moments. Well Treese, they/it needs to be something different or out of your normal reaction. Something that is going to make him think. But first....

You have to get yourself together. Yes, you first. None of your attempts to right something that went wrong will work if your not ready. With no brainfunction this will be hard to do

Forget about him and his OW.

Think about you.

Then go over all of his complaints.

Then with whatever knowledge of her you have....see what your H might find attractive in her that he didn't in you.

Sounds a bit off the chain I know, but he's your husband and if you want him back you have to work at it.

Just so ya know Treese, this does not mean he will come home, it means that your working on making Treese better. All the way around. It will give you an opportunity on salvaging your marriage, in the meantime you will be saving yourself.

Hang in there!!

Jeanette