I understand you feel the need to move on and get this over and done with.

I know that people say things in anger especially if they are in MLC.

My Husband told me on no uncertain terms that he wanted nothing more then to Divorce me and move on with his life. That he had been miserable with me for over 20 years, blah, blah, blah.

I honestly believed him, but refused to do anything to help him make the Divorce process go by faster or easier for him.

Your Wife has many issues going on in her life, some of which have nothing to do with you, some have everything to do with you.

This whole process is going to take time, and she is going to have to really get to a place, mentally before she is ready and willing to even face them.

You probably already know all of this, but rushing this Divorce full steam ahead, doesn't seem wise to me.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.