H4H - you and I got the same insight from WDID - she can only imagine life like it was and cannot picture better. My W said the same thing last night, she has seen changes in me, but is still afraid it may be too late and doesn't want to go back. I said neither do I, only want a new chapter, not a new book!
Thinking of you and your sitc.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09