To Hope or Not to Hope?

[MichelleLT]

Where are you moving to and why? (Maybe I missed that).

You guys have survived a lot of hard times together, but there are wounds. Has your H ever opened up about the baby's death and such? I find it very telling that a lot happened around the anniversary.

For my H, it was the anniversary of the death of a guy in his platoon who was shot through the throat by a sniper. He shuts down and acts out. He is not good about asking for what he needs, he thinks I should be able to support him w/o him having to tell me what he needs, so when our M wasn't supplying it he hooked up with a girl from online. Then a week later started the long-term A that he (possibly) broke off recently.

For both our H's (and for you) those were life-changing events. And easily could be triggers for QLC. Just thinking "out loud" here.

Hang in there.