For the guys with kids and a WAW

[hopeful4her]

Taking note. It is always the one step forward and two steps back with me. I end up doing something dumb at a critical time.

The thing that WDID on her thread, about the different life and how OM is convincing her that it will be better with him, has me thinking a lot. I can just see into WW's mind that if she stays, she just cannot picture life better than it was. Only the same. That is going to be key. She has admitted to seeing the changes in me. Last week, she told me that it had to take this to get me to change. She hates where we live. It is a long distance to get to the city. About 20 drive to get just to the outskirts of San Antonio. Everything like work, school, stores is in San Antonio. I told her last week, we can sell the house. I told her the house is just stuff. What is important is the people in the house.

At one point in our heated discussion last week, she said "The reason I'm moving out is because everything is so far. I want to be closer to town. It's inconvenient." Thats when I mentioned selling the house. That was her excuse for wanting to move out. Not all the other stuff that has come out her mouth. This will be key, I think.