Better late than never?

[jon2911]

Later in the convo, I mentioned that I put her picture up at my new office, and got a lot of complements (She'd told me last week that if I don't have a picture of my wife up, it's sending a message that I'm available, etc etc). Instead of making her feel special like I'd hoped, this made her angry. She said I'm putting it up now for my own convenience, but back "when it mattered" I didn't do things like this. Same reaction I get about everything else. Anyway, there was no saving the conversation, so I went to bed. She texted me:

"I was just missing you. I'm sad my crazy idea didn't work:("

I found it the next morning, and texted her that I'm sad as well.

I was sad for a little while, but had blast hanging with musicians and watching sports all day. Last night at 1:00 AM she called, told me her day was great at her niece's baby dedication, that she's been at her brother's house all week, and that her father goes into surgery today. It looks like she's been avoiding her house. I was really tired after the weekend, and needed energy for my new job today, so I cut the talk a bit short. She seemed to be sad about that.

Again, this is another LRT deal, making sure I'm the one to end conversations, time spent together, etc. This DBing is so hard! I can tell she's really missing me, but I'm still really bummed out today.