Thanks, jbly - I actually spent some time last week putting things away. I have packed most of the family pictures, all of the wedding pictures and the framed photos that I had of him around the house and my office. Because he still has access to the house, I kept some of his family photos with us together on one small area on a bookshelf with - to show that our life together is still part of my reality. I didn't want to "erase all traces". I've packed most of his stuff away for him to move out. I really think this is part of why I have been in a funk - it feels like it is making our separation more permanent.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now