You sure know how to stir the pot. It's good to know you have moved on with your life. I like the sound of where you are right now. You never know, your H might just have a miraculous conversion someday, but your can't go on living your life in limbo. He's got many a battle to fight. What an awesome woman you have become, I'm very proud of you. You are right about forgiveness. It sounds like you've finally given that gift to YOU!
I must admit I will miss giving you encouragement to keep trying to make your M work. I think many of us here want your M to work out as much or more than you do. No matter what happens though, you have become an awesome leader and spiritual source. Your children and everyone you encounter will feel the blessings you have to share.
My 2 cents: A very scholarly theologian pastor explained to me that the bible, the word, allows us to D. The catch is,(we're not supposed to get remarried, once M always M.)
Love,
COG
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