Better late than never?

[jon2911]

Help! Don't know what to make of this. Hopefully some of you can help me out.

Had a fantastic weekend. Jazz fest Friday night and Saturday, got lots of studying done and hung out with friends. Late Saturday night W called and asked me to meet her at the Ranch. This is a vacation home owned by her grandparents, about halfway between Houston and Dallas. This is HUGE. I've actually set a Ranch rendezvous as one of my goals. Unfortunately, I had already committed to play at church all day Sunday. I told her I'd love to come, but already had plans. I offered to meet her next weekend, or Memorial Day. Really hope she takes me up on that.

I know that Michelle's LRT says to accept some invitations, but not all, but this is the first time I've done that in a while. It was really, really hard, and made me question my GAL activities. Weekends (as you guys know) are the hardest part of separation, so I'm trying to make plans each weekend. But what if that gets in the way of invitations like this? This sucks. She seems uncomfortable with anything planned in advance, which I understand, but I need more than a couple hours notice.