K gave you great advice.. as long as you are making the decision to file because you are ready.. and not being motivated by anger or fear.. then all I can say is you know what's in your best interest. (and as BBJ said it's not in stone once you file as we've seen from 11th hour busts and even our very own Kerry)
Was your son the one that told you? If so, I imagine he struggled with the information.. and felt uncomfortable telling you.. but at the same time he felt safe coming to you. You are your children's safe haven right now!
