I really think, in general, guys just don't get some things. I would always be wishing my H would give me a back rub, and I would complain about my back hurting so that he would want to rub it like I would do for him, but guess what that did? it made him annoyed that I would be complaining about my back. That was one of my "mouse chasing cheese" things I did, and I never got it until I read DR.
I know that we would like our men to know what we want, but they just don't have that intuitive nurturing nature that us women have. So we have to just ask our guys directly what we need/want. otherwise, we get upset because they aren't helping, and they get frustrated because they don't know what the heck we want and why on earth are we upset.
speaking in general of course.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
