BND,

I really appriciate all of your good will and thoughts. My wife has made it very clear to me that she wants nothing to do with me anymore. She had a birthday weekend and I was not included in any of the plans, she has been lieing about everything, she hurt my son and continues to do anything she can to hurt me. She comes home drunk late at night and disrupts the entire house. I have been advise by my support group (Family, Friends, Lawyer, W and Psych) that it is not good physically and mentally for me, her or the kids to continue in this mode. I would still stand for my M if there was any effort what so ever from my W. My W needs serious help and willnot get it.

AlmostHopeful, I have a Psych meeting tomorrow and he is going to advise me where to go for Family Counciling and we will start right away.

Thank you all for your concerns.

BND, please do not stop posting to my thread. BTW, I live in a town with less than 5000 people and it is 1 mile by 3 miles so no matter where I move in town it would be very close. I must be close to my kids and live in their school district.