"Does anyone ever wonder sometimes if they even want to save their M or if it is worth the work?"
Everyday.
I just try to remember that if my H could go from being a pillar to a pile of poop, what guarantee will I have that someone else, who appears to be "it", won't do the same?
I have too much invested in this man to just walk off into the sunset. And as Sage so wisely put it, giving up and hooking up with someone else, is pretty much the WAS's mentality. And as WAS's are not high on my "People I Admire the Most" list, I'm not eager to join their club.
