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Gypsy #1428672 04/28/08 01:54 PM
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[/quote] I should have not asked him at all, and just left when he got to the house. Live and learn.

Sigh.[quote]


LWB

May be this is just what you need to do.
When he shows up be ready to shoot out the door and say I'll be back later have fun. \:\)

Gypsy,

Love what you posted certainly. Lots of stuff to think about. I need to think more about me.

JAK

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Gypsy #1428777 04/28/08 02:57 PM
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Wow, Gypsy what you said about the lady is spot on... We do need to take better care of ourselves, most of us don't.

Hey lwb...ditto what everyone has said, you will be better mommy for it. Hope your ok.

\:\)


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

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lovelyolive #1428806 04/28/08 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By: lovelyolive
Personally, I am torn between wanting D4 all to myself and knowing that I NEED time to discover me again. Maybe it's the guilty Mommy thing for so completely enjoying my time alone.


LO- That comment is ME!! I'm getting better about wanting my time, but I also know my H. He can go out and do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, but I can almost guarantee that if I was selfish even once he'd use it against me if he could.

LWB- Hi lady! So what a guy you have. I just DO NOT get them. I ask myself if my H will ever grow up. I hear him on the phone with his friends & his brother and it doesn't appear as if that will happen any time soon. I sure wish I could come down and watch the girls for you. I'm sure D4 would have a blast too.

I love what Gypsy has said to you too!

Have a good day!!

-Sue


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day
SueS #1429495 04/29/08 12:35 AM
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Martyr Mama went out when H got there. \:\) I was ready and nicely said "Are you good with them? I'll be back later". He was fine with it, so I hightailed it outta there. lol D6 was crying when I left (SOB!) but I went anyway. H texted me that she was cheered up in no time.

I saw Leaving Sarah Marshall........great LBS/WAS movie. \:\)


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hey lwb! \:\) \:\) \:\)

yay for heading out for a little lwb time.


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H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
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D-4

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SallyM #1429505 04/29/08 12:48 AM
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Hi my SallyM!!! Now, if you could just travel here, I could have lwb/sallym time. Say, on May 30th, for a certain Sex movie?? \:\)

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and lwb, don't forget its good for the KIDS for mommy to go out. not just for you, but for them. \:\)


M-41
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M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher
SallyM #1429508 04/29/08 12:50 AM
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checking those ding rates as we speak! if I can do it, I'll be there. granted, ow's b-day (gag) is june 1, so might not have a sitter. sigh. but maybe!!!!! if I can do it, I'll spend some of my stimulus money your way. can't remember, cosmos before or after?


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Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
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D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher
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Before, after, during........ how could you forget!??? \:\)

Oh and barf to June 1. Hope she gets a big bag of poop for her birthday. Sorry. Bitter LWB in the house...... MWAH!

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Originally Posted By: lwb

Hope she gets a big bag of poop for her birthday.


That cracked me up probably more than it should off, thanks for the laugh.


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
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