There is something about your situation that is really bothering me. I am posting in a hurry and have only had time to read this current thread, so if the Q is answered in a previous thread, my apologies.
You have posted that your wife lashed out at your son.
You have posted separately that you have a recording of your son accusing your wife of beating him.
But I don't see anywhere that you have posted taking your son to a doctor, or counselor, or child psych.
