She said she could not change who she is. That is her reason for just about everything now. It is who she is and she cannot change.
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She is in Cuckoo Land. She has lived such a consequence free life for so long it almost seems like she feels she can do what ever comes into her head and get away with it....well she has so I can see where it comes from. It is as much my fault as hers as I have not properly stood up for myself in the past.
The oldest actually just turned 13 and he never really knew his bio father until about 5 years ago. He has some medical problems and he has not talked to me in over a week..I can only assume his mom has informed him of the problems we are having. My 3 year old has also noticed some tension as he has regressed into going to the bathroom in his pants, behaving badly etc etc.
I really wonder sometimes if there is any saving this marriage and if it is even worth all the work. I am so tired and frustrated with never having any peace in my love life. It is a constant struggle every single day....I would just like it to be a little easier!
