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Does anyone ever wonder sometimes if they even want to save their M or if it is worth the work?



certainly...see "the battle within" and obviously if people didn't think that none of us would be in this sit in the first place...something that happens to the lbs eventually is they stop and think...do I really want this? what am I fighting for after all?

it really isn't such a bad place to be...in a way it evens the playing field, but eventually a decision must be made to commit or not.

re how will you know if the mlc is over?

try not putting a label on it...instead simply watch h's behavior and then you'll know.

LL