I think these people are concerned with me stalking my wife. I think, because alimony stops when she gets married, that I am going to be sending limo's filled with men to the house and i am going to increase her budget 100% at the beauty parlor. Kinda like the Bachlorette.
I have no clue as to what you are talking about, honestly.
As a Woman, IF I was having a MLC the last thing I would want is for my STBX living so close to me.
I would think it was a major control issue.
I would believe that you were just trying to make my life even more miserable by living so close to me.
I do understand that your whole life is centered in one area, your kids, your job, etc. I am not telling you that you need to move far away.
I just think that you are "REACTING" to the situation, rather then dealing with it, and handling it well.
You mention that your W is receiving bad advice from many people that she talks to.
Who are you receiving your advice from?
I take it from these last posts of yours that you are not standing for your Marriage any longer, and are done.
That is your choice, and nobody here will judge you in any way, but it is all happening so quickly, the dust hasn't even settled yet, and that is what concerns me.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
