What is the definition of a pity party?.. hmm hmm..
When you don't share what's going on cuz you don't want to bring others down.
Hello.. we're already down! We've been kicked in the teeth, ribs, heart.. but we're all here.. for you, for me, for anyone who needs it!
There was a time when I didn't post because it hurt too much, I felt so hopeless, I had nothing to say, didn't know what to say. Being honest with yourself is the best thing going.
It must be hard to have so many positive interactions with your spouse, hear all the "Way to go's" and still feel like it's not enough. Me.. I don't even get crumbs anymore from "Kevin".. maybe just his farts in my general direction. It is beyond my imagination to have any of the time you spend with your husband.
So he's a big weenie and doesn't know what he wants. So he's feeling lots of pain, confusion, indecision for what he's done and what's most important to him. You're a brilliant, warm, loving mother, wife and woman and you're giving him time.
Just know that you are a radiant sunbeam in the rainbow of life, Ms. Whey.
