I told him that his staying away was adding to my anxiety and insecurity levels and making it much harder to heal. I asked him to factor that into the equasion unstead of just going by his own comfort level.
I felt the same way...but I did make the mistake of eventually making a stink about his taking so long to move completely back home...and even when he did move home...he still kept his apartment for a few months after for some reason.
time and patience...time and patience...best to work on his timeline for him moving back in..then you won't question if he "really" wants to be there or not.
at least that is how I would do it if I had it to do over again (which I hope I never do!)
