That's for you two Tal!!!! (and no, I'm not a "twink" )
Oh what a fabulous post!!!!! My H too was in the midst of a depression when he "found" the chatline and the two OW who boosted his sagging ego and told him what HE wanted to hear. Sad, similar story.
I think the way your H is acting and speaking now is VERY positive! I'm so happy for you!
Shiny
P.S. loved the plastic pink beaded fake moccassins!!!