I know what your saying and I have considered it, but would rather be where I am to see my kids everyday, for now anyway. When we discussed moving out, my W was adamant that if that happened it wouldn't be like it was when I moved out for a few days when oldest was young, and I would go to our house after work til he went to bed.
I don't mind my W going out, but I just wake up a lot which drives me mad. I mean, I'm going out more anyway so not to major an issue and I honestly think we have a better chance while I'm there to regain friendship etc as when not there, I'fd hardly see her to make a difference.
I will re evaluate though all the time, but at the moment, but for bad days, it's generally ok at home.
As I mention, it's kind of the relationship we should of had without the cuddles and S stuff
