Oh Steelers. Time and time again it is stated believe nothing of what they tell you in MLC. He has left twice now to go back to her, yes I know he has no where else to go. You needed milk and basics he sends over motor oil via son-son drives your car-makes me think son asked for the oil.Again I would not take too much of what son tells you as gospel. You say the OW means nothing and is not the problem. He says he can't get out of the situation with the other woman. If he,s only a lodger and one that doesn't contribute because you say he spends it all on you and kids and house, why can't he? This makes no sense and yes I know he is in MLC. People reading your thread obviously can only read what is posted and you are living through it. You will do what you are going to do and believe what he tells you regardless of any discrepencies in his story. I hope it doesn't go on for many more years and that your loyalty,love and faith in him will bring you what your heart desires. Apart from hoping that you have a happy life whatever the outcome I can think of nothing more to offer.May your family be put back together one day.
