All the children are in agreement that she should just do the pain meds for comfort. Chemo we are sure will make her sick and she would have to travel over 80 miles round trip each time she does treatment and that would be to much for her. She does not like to have to be away from home at all except for the store.
Im'e thinking that we will have to have her go to a facility also if it gets to bad. No one is able to be there 24/7 and she has no funds for in home nursing. I am applying for medicaid for her to have help with any doctor bills and cover nursing home costs if need be hopefully she would be eligible.
What a mess.
H seems to be doing ok though. Even thanked me and said he appreciated all iv'e done to take care of M and all that is involved. Actually im'e the only one in the family with the experience in this area but, I would do what had to be done anyway.
Hope you are doing well.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 04/28/0801:40 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
