LOLOL--Shinybear--don't tell me you're a twink!
Hey, we all make a big distinction about this term. It doesn't encompass all white folks, and it doesn't mean that there aren't other people of other races who become trusted members of our communities and sometimes participate in the spiritual aspects of our culture(s).
I've heard some twinks use the excuse that we "all come from Tribal people" so it's ok to rip off, twist and misuse our ways for their own selfish ego-trip". There is a partial truth there, yes, most all of our ancestors did have similar ways. It isn't unusual to find people from other races who have spiritual gifts drawn to our ways.
The difference is that the real people will approach things with respect and humility. Big difference.
...so with that distinction made...
the "twinky factor" does through gas on the fire of my anger at uber-ugly, and yes, I'm extremely angry at her.
Every long-term relationship will have it's up and downs and phases. If there is another person who's whole MO is to sniff around like a shark trying to pick up on the slightest hint of blood...
...let's just say she looks for the weakness available at the time...and tells each man exactly what he wan't to hear and what say or do what every she can that will turn a division between a H and a W into the Grand Canyon.
But hey, she ain't nothing but a serial ho, and can't hold a candle to me...and sure as heck can't make a good batch of fry bread! She's not a threat to me any more. Maybe I'll send her a pair of bright pink, plastic beaded, made-in-Taiwan mocasins for a consolation prize, though!
