Why is it so important for you to hammer Amy, or anyone else I've seen you post to when they see no more hope for reconciliation and want to move on, have a life?
Why do you guilt them? Does it make you feel better about your own reasons for not 'giving up'?
Or is your ego so in need of validation that maybe that's why you argue these points with Bworl, Amy, and others?
in your thread you say you are 'sick of it'. Everyone supports YOUR decisions yet you seem to feel that anyone else who is 'sick of it' has to have the bible slammed over their head.
Why? Because you are ashamed that YOU have had enough. That YOU choose not to 'stand' forever?
Well I'll tell you something. I am glad you won't 'stand' for your selfish, self destructive wife. She has made her own bed and has to pay the consequences for her actions. You have been a good man and done the best that can be done.
Now, put your ego in check and realize that you owe Amy an apology, or at least some respect. You're a man who can do that much.
And as far as 'justification' for her 'divorce' if she were to choose one, the Bible does say if a spouse abandons the believing spouse that is grounds. Clearly, Amy is a believer and has been abandoned.
