I can't add anything that Jeff and Jeanette didn't say. Find a C as soon as you can. I have a C, and friend who is a therapist and the recotor of the Episcopal church who I turn to often (and I am not even Episcopal :-)) Find those folks who you feel confident is speaking to - a C is great because they will help you through these exceptionally tough times.
I, like you, rarely feel like eating - I do drink a lot of water and I do feel weak all the time. My DB coach said you need to keep yourself healthy, especially physically as this will take its toll on you. Go buy a case of water and put bottles all over the place - this is what I do - I drink about 10 bottles a day! No wonder I cry so much! :-)
Treese, take care of yourself and your kids - that is the most important gift you can give yourself right now.
My heart goes out to you. I have you in my prayers tonight.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09